Finding Mental Health Care

Marisol had spent eleven years managing Ehlers-Danlos syndrome before she finally tried therapy in Tucson. The first counselor told her that her chronic pain was “psychosomatic” and suggested she try yoga. The second one kept asking, with kind eyes, when she planned to “get back to normal.” By the third intake, Marisol cried in the … Read more

Eight months after the stroke that took the right side of his face and most of his short-term memory, Marcus sat in his Cleveland kitchen and tried to explain to his wife why he had cried during a paint commercial. He used to be the kind of man who fixed things. Now he could not … Read more

Desmond, a forty-one-year-old high school history teacher in Cleveland, Ohio, lost the central vision in both eyes to a rare retinal disease over the course of fourteen months. He kept teaching. He kept walking his daughter to the bus. What he could not keep doing was the thing he had done every Sunday for two … Read more

Tasha was a Division I middle-distance runner at the University of Oregon, the kind of athlete whose senior season was supposed to end at the NCAA championships in Eugene. Instead, in March of her final year, an MRI showed a stress fracture in her sacrum that wouldn’t heal in time. The team doctor told her … Read more

Reggie had been a paramedic in Phoenix for twenty-two years before the call that finally broke him. It was not, in the end, the worst call he had ever run. It was a routine cardiac arrest in a quiet neighborhood, an elderly man whose wife stood in the doorway and asked Reggie what she should … Read more

Marisol, a thirty-four-year-old graphic designer in Austin, Texas, had tried four hearing therapists before she gave up on talk therapy entirely. Each session followed the same script: a stranger interpreter would arrive, sit between Marisol and the clinician, and translate her ASL into spoken English. The clinician would respond in English. The interpreter would sign … Read more

Adrian made partner at a midsize firm in Chicago at thirty-four, a year ahead of schedule. By thirty-six he was drinking a bottle of wine alone every night, sleeping four hours, and lying to his wife about how often he took the bar association’s 1-800 hotline number out of his desk drawer just to look … Read more

When the family court judge in Maricopa County, Arizona, told Daniel Reyes he had 48 hours to enroll in a 26-week Batterer Intervention Program before his next custody hearing, Daniel had no idea where to start. The list the court handed him was three pages long, single-spaced, with phone numbers that turned out to be … Read more

Patricia Donnelly, a 58-year-old retired teacher in Cleveland, Ohio, had been in private-practice therapy for two years when her panic attacks worsened despite three medication trials and weekly CBT. Her primary care physician at Cleveland Clinic suggested a referral to the hospital’s Center for Behavioral Health, where psychiatrists, psychologists, and a neuropsychologist could coordinate. Patricia … Read more

James Whitaker, a 41-year-old American product manager who relocated from Boston to Singapore in 2024 with his wife and two kids, knew the international move would be hard. He did not expect that nine months in, he would be sitting on his apartment balcony at 3 a.m., heart racing, convinced he was having a heart … Read more